why bother asking? when you have already decided when to have the event? was it because it was your obligation as a leader to ask everyone in the team whether they're were okay with the date? or was it because you left me out the other time that you wanted to make up for it? when you came asking me twice whether i was okay with the date of the event, could i say that i'm not alright with the date that you fixed? like "no, i'm not okay with the date", does it make a difference? would you reconsider again? and change your mind about the date? obviously not, because it's back to square one. the original date that you fixed quite some time ago. and just because i'm the youngest in the team, the only one have A's this year, the only one on study break, does that mean that i'm insignificant? and have no say on things?